Thanks for providing more information.
Firstly your symptoms are just caused due to improper diet and lifestyle.
And you need to take some dietary and lifestyle modifications which may include
Eat fibre rich diet and take metamucil on regular basis.
Also start probiotics.
Continue GAS X rather than frequent use of Milk of Magnesia.
Do regular exercises like walking,jogging,swimming etc 5 days a week.
You should do deep breathing exercises and meditation to relieve stress due to work and financial related issues.
You should also take short breaks of rest while doing work.
Bloating,constipation,flatulence can be associated with Irritable Bowel syndrome(IBS) which is a functional disorder.
Eat night time meals at 8 pm and avoid late night eating and work.
Take a walk for 10-20 minutes after night time meals.
I understand your current job profile and work and mother's health related stress.
However you need to keep yourself motivated as everyone has up's and down's in their life.
You should continue Xanax-antianxiety medications for a while.
And you should ask your doctor for other medications like H-2-receptor blockers
If your symptoms'll persist then consult your Gastroenterologist for further evaluation and management.
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