Hello, welcome to Justanswer, I will try to assist you with your medical question, and any medical information you seek
I am very sorry to hear about the abuse you have had
I want to tell you that you will get over it, but the truth is some people do not get over it
I am trying so hard at the moment as it is all in the hands of the police and the family court case is contradicting everything
Am on tabs but am finding it all hard as he used to put me in to urine retention
Are you taking medication?
Yes anti depressivs
Also have counciling
Oh blow I can't spell them they begin with f
How long have you been in counseling?
Are you there?
Are you having computer problems?
No but had to pop up stairs
Has the counseling helped?
Not sure if its been wise or not opening all up as have been over and over and over it with gp, rape centr and victim support
I see, unfortunately it takes time for this to help, honestly, it may take years, but you need to keep taking medication and stay with counseling
I'm just really a ancshus spelt wrong sorry
I understand, please try to give it more time
As have got to do an other plice vidio report next Tuesday'
I see, that may be difficult, but your medication should help
I'm so worried about everything
I'm sorry to hear that, you should ask your doctor to prescribe xanax for you to help when these symptoms occur
And am so worried about goig in to retention of urine again as it hurts so much as I with held about 21/2 litres of urine inside of me
That needs to be addressed by your urologist or urogynecologist, they can help
That's two and a half litres
I feel bad now because I never to, d anyone as I was so frightend as he was a hospital manager
He threatened me with social survives
That is unfortunate
He said people would just think your mad and laugh at you then whilst I was in hospital he would go around friends saying I was going mad as there was nothing wrong with me
Well the good thing is you know you are not mad
What other questions can I help you answer on this condition?
I know but it still doesn't help thing's now :(
In old age is the bladder likely to go the other way after going in to retention so many times
it usually goes the other way as you age
But does it tend to get weeker than normally
The bladder may become weaker and leads to incontinence with age rather than causing retention
That's what I'm worrying about as he used to jam bottles and things inside of me inbetween really rlugh sex
It is impossible to predict if it will occur, for now it is best not to think about it
I don't usually but just feeling extra worried as he is going to be re bailed next wednesday
I am sorry to hear that
Is there anything else I can help you answer on this topic?
I'm woundering if bail conditions change its an indication on how all investigations are going
I'm sorry, I cannot answer that, I am a doctor, only a lawyer or law enforcement officer can answer that
I know but was explaining why I was feeling the way I do
Okay, I understand
Is there another question I can help you answer on this subject?