Well,honestly it is not possible to get herpes outbreak after 35 years.
Because normally it occur once after 1 or 2 years.
So ,the source can be your partner.
I do not want to tell you this but I have to.
If it's the first breakout, doesn't it mean that there was contact when sex took place
would a doctor lie to a patient's wife because of privacy law?
Doctors are not allowed to break privacy cannot say they are lying.
So does that mean there was sex going on when breakout occured?
It is not necessary that you get infection when he is having infection.Some times carriers of virus are capable of shedding sufficient numbers of the virus to infect you during sex.
what I want answered is that I didn't have herpes but he had it and never had it before, wouldn't you agree he contacted it thru having sex with someone else? Yes or no?
thank you. I didn't want to accuse until a doctor finally gave me a straight answer.
what does that mean?
Means suspicion is going on him but must wait for a proper time to burst .
like how and when?
If your doctor give some proof or maybe he will tell himself if you pretend with gestures that you know all.
It is hard for you but I think he will himself be telling truth.
okay, I have tried that but gets defensive
He will speak up do not worry.Dont go for sex for a few weeks.