well, it appears that you may not be communicating effectively with your husband
People have very different personality types
I would suggest that you look at the Myer-Briggs personality test-
He may respond to something else entirely different-
talking to him about his feelings-
what would make him feel heard?
what does he feel he is missing or he needs?
Clearly he is upset about something and perhaps he feels (not necessarily rightfully so) that you are discounting or ignoring his needs
he may be very sensitive
Perhaps, if you asked him if he wanted the last bit of dinner or if he was hungry any more, he would feel that you are paying more attention to him
And if he wants it- then perhaps you can segue into suggesting him helping you put the rest away..
I hope this helps
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