Hello and thank you for your question,
I am sorry you did not get your answer back right away. It seems that your question was misplaced into a wrong category and just now transferred to the health category.
No, your doctor will not report the incident if you don't want the incident reported. You have to actually testify to the police what happened and if you refuse to do it, there is nothing to report.
However, I do think your doctor can help you with your anxiety and depression. This is a very difficult situation to go through and will take a lot of time to heal. You will need support of your family and friends to get through this tough time. In the meantime, your doctor can give you something for anxiety. One of the great medications we use is called Lexapro, it is very beneficial and will help you calm down and see things in a different light. It takes a couple of weeks for the medication to fully kick in your system so don't give up on it after a few days. You can also ask your dr for a prescription for Xanax which is used for severe anxiety and use take it as needed during very stressful moments. Unlike Lexapro, Xanax can cause addiction so it should be used very sporadically and for very short period of time. You might also consider seeing a psychologist (not necessarily a psychiatrist) to just talk your feelings out.
Again, if you do separate (which probably sounds like a good idea given the fact that your partner has not been treating you very well), it will take several months to heal and feel better. You need to stay strong for yourself and your children.
I hope you find this information helpful. Please feel free to follow-up with any other questions you might have.
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Best wishes and good luck,