Thank you for your reply, Jimmy.
Well, before you go and invest in anal trainer, I think there are a few things you can try to help.
The problem that most people do not realize is that laxatives and enemas when used over a long period of time cause "bowel dependency". What that means is that your bowel will not want to move without having to take a laxative. This is why we do not recommend laxatives on regular basis.
You most likely tried Colace (also called Docusate). Its the most frequently used stool softener available over the counter. If you haven't tried it, I would start with Colace - each pill is 100 mg - start with taking 2 daily and may increase to 4 daily if necessary.
At the same time as Colace, try Miralax (get generic Polyethlene Glycol - much cheaper). Its a powder which you dissolve in 8 oz of any NON-carbonated beverage - tea, coffee, water, juice. It takes about 72 hours before it starts to work so don't give up after the first couple of days. Usually you use 1 tablespoon but the dose can also be increased (or decreased if you get diarrhea) if constipation and/or straining persists.
So you can use Colace and Miralax together and adjust their dose depending on how your bowel movements are moving.
If neither of these medications prove to be effective, you can discuss Amitiza with your GP. Amitiza is a relatively new medication (about 7 years old) and is the only prescription medication approved for chronic constipation. Your doctor may even have samples in his office. It is not a laxative so you do not form dependency to it. It is usually very very effective.
If none of these things help you, I would recommend you get a bowel transit study to see if you have a lazy colon but I think this is really premature at this point.
Congrats on weight loss. That's a great achievement. Most people who are in the process of loosing weight are constipated!!
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Best wishes and good luck,