Males can contract yeast infection from female partners .
The symptoms you describe are suggestive of Balano -Posthitis .
In your case both partners should be treated to prevent recurrent infection .
Topical antifungal creams like clotrimazole can be prescribed to you .
But with such wide spread infection i would suggest a physician consultation and you
may also need antifungal medicine orally like fluconazole .
Other then that you can do warm compression with isotonic saline to reduce inflammation .
Hope this helps
Balano - Posthitis - Balanitis is an inflammation of the glans of the penis and posthitis is inflammation of the foreskin .
Since from fungal infection penis has become inflammed .
Causes of yeast infection in females
As such there is a risk of oral thrush from such exposure but chances are usually less.
But you should examine your throat to look for any signs ( whitish creamish lesions in the mouth and tounge)