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Why are my dream so accurate? since a teenager I've had detailed dreams come true. One, when I was 18 I dreamed my girlfriend had sex with an old highs school friend of hers after we had a fight. the next day I go to her and explain in detail the dream. she just stood there shocked and admitted to me she did have sex with him that same night. I never even met this guy but was able to describe to her what he looked like and even where and they had sex. fast forward to my current wife. six years into our marriage she gets pregnant. week 15 i dreamed we would loose him. week 21 we lost him. fast forward to 12 years of marriage. I dreamed she was having an affair. in the dream they were standing at a fountain. she tells me in the dream she is seeing someone else. I wake up and ask her and she said "no, your crazy." two weeks later i found out she lied. I found out she was starting an affair with a coworker. she tells me they only kissed. I confronted both of them and was assured it was a mistake and that the affair ended. we then spend the next eight months working on our relationship. we are both very happy with the changes we made and enjoy each other much more. Then, I dreamed again. once again, I find her at this fountain. I walk over to her and she is holding this same guy again. However, this time she tells me, "I never stopped. In fact, we had sex. Oh, and he's not the only one. Feel that pain..." I woke up so hurt from the dream because for the past eight months she said she was happy again and it seemed she was. though, little things still did not fully add up during the eight month but I just kept telling myself I needed to trust her and give her that freedom. one week goes by and I go online to our cell provider to upgrade my phone. I notice that our phone records show they never stopped talking. in fact, pics where showing sent back and forth. I then confront her and she says basically yes their affair never ended. another week goes by and I find out that they had sex several times. then I find out that she was sleeping with one coworker and stringing along two other coworkers with flirting. each person did not know she was seeing and having sex with another either. in fact they even said that does not sound like the sweet caring person they know. Um hello, your telling me... She is one of those people you would think not in a million years would do something like that. we have three kids and at the time of the affair our son was only 1. the man she had the sexual affair with was married to with a son the same age. this guy is not that attractive either. then she tells me the sex was not even any good. it's been a year now since all that went down. she no longer works there but I can't help but think if she had the means she would have left our marriage. I would have too. but I'm stuck. I can't help but also think that at some point I'll catch her messing up again and putting me thru another emotional roller coaster. I do love her but I don't know why anymore. she does love me but she says she does not know why she did what she did. she said it's not even who she is. Since the beginning of the affair, I noticed I started to masturbate at least six to seven times a week. I did not use to do it that often. even my dreams are more sexual. when I do have sex dreams I would say that I'm now starting to dream of sex with other women way more than I use to. maybe 70/30%. another time around age 17 I had a vision. I say vision because I could not tell the difference between reality and what I was experiencing. No, it was not a lucid dream either. I know what those are as I have them all the time. this one was a message for sure. and yes, the vision played out within a week. I was asleep when I had the vision. Why do I dream so profoundly? hb