Hi again, Steph.
Thanks for getting the billing thing straightened out and for rating me again; I appreciate your efforts, however, unfortunately, I see no change on my end. I have not been rated again and that refund on your previous question, remains.
I don't think he has to lose weight for anyone but himself. It's healthier. Do you really believe it's possible that the day you left (or even the week you left), he went out and got himself a girlfriend? I don't see it. With the way he makes new friends and communicates with people being more difficult for him, do you really think it would be that easy for him to have a girlfriend in such a short period of time? I doubt it highly.
Remember I told you, what I 'see' or predict is not written in stone. It's 'my' impression of the entire situation. You make your own destiny by what actions you take. You've expressed this doubt before, re: you still being friends and/or ever seeing each other again. I've told you I do not see you never being in each others' lives again, and you said you're definitely going there to speak with him and straighten this all out and find out where you stand.
There's no doubt he is acting like a jerk and an a-hole, and you certainly don't deserve this type of treatment, but we have discussed that a lot of this behavior may be attributed to his disorder(s).
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