I did find some information for you about Bobby J Smith's daughter. She is Bobbi Jo Burton now.
This is the listing I got:
Aylett, VAMechanicsville, VAHenrico, VA Highland Springs, VARichmond, VA
AliasesBobbi Jo SmithRelativesShawn BurtonXXXXX XXXXX ------------------------------
Latest Listing:Bobbi Jo Burton, 33Aylett, VA.
I am having problems getting a phone number for you. If you can reach Bobbi Jo Burton, you should be able to get information on her father. This link can get you further information, but it is a pay site to get the phone number: http://www.spokeo.com/searchq=Bobbi+Burton&sao2=t30#Virginia(NNN) NNN-NNNN/a>
I hope this is helpful and you can find your friend with this information.
I found a phone number for Shawn M Burton, who is I believe married to Bobbi Jo Burton/Smith, whose father I believe is the Bobby J Smith from Mechanicsville,VA.
This may be a round about way, to locate him, but with so many Smiths in VA, it has been a lot of time and research to get here. Shawn M Burton8076 Signal Hill Rd Mechanicsville, VA 23111
If this is Bobby J Smith's Daughter and her husband, she should be able to give you a phone number for your friend.
If this is not helpful, I am afraid I will have to opt out and see if someone else has better luck. Joan
I hope that you can get in touch with your friend. At least we know that is his daughter who is now 33 years old. Please let me know if you are able to reach your friend. My goal is to give you you 100% Excellent Service. Please do not forget to rate my service if I have met that goal. Joan