Hi Pam, thanks so much for your reply. Why is it when I do ask my guides for signs they have showed me the signs I asked for to continue with Ken. I know he's having trouble right now from his abusive childhood, I love him so much and don't want to let go we get along so well together. But if it's for the best it will be so hard but I maybe can try -You do say there's someone else-any idea on him when, where,who maybe if someone came into my life it would help me see.
The sign I've used quite a few times is asking my guides to confirm to me that I should continue with Ken and if we're meant to be is having him contact me by a certain time- one example i asked before midnight on a certain day and he texted me at 11;55, that has happened on many occasions i always change the time and he always contacts me by the time i ask for. What exactly is it about ken that you are seeing as not a good fit for me? sorry for all the questions life just really sucks sometimes
The first and foremost is the pain, the second is that you can't change him, he is out of your control. He will not change.
The signs we ask for cannot be things that we can reasonable expect to repeat, and/or happen at certain intervals, and they cannot be related to the question at hand. If they are related to the thing we're asking for, we can't help but skew the potential outcome in our ego's favor.
The signs you ask for, have to be completely random. The flying of a certain color bird past you, a feather on the ground, a coin turned heads up or down.
What do you mean change him, i don't want to do that i like him as he is. Would asking to see for example a red balloon be a good sign from my guides? I know i'm frusterating but i've never loved anyone like this before and can't help but want to follow my heart. I was always told a quote to remember"when your at a crossroad in your life and there are 2 paths to choose from -the one you should take and the one you want to take - always take the second one. so i think thats where all my confusion's coming from. Is there maybe something i don't know about ken that my guides aren't sure of - he's always been wonderful to me maybe i'm missing something
I understand and accept the answers my only question is was it always like that or did something change along the way? why did he come into my life if i was only to get hurt- it took me 2 years to even want to be involved with anyone after my divorce-now i can't even trust myself to make good decisions.
I've only had 3 relationships in life including a 10 year marriage and not one was a good decsion- but for some reason this one felt right and we're so alike, i felt safe and very comfortable and he is so kind-all the things i thought you look for-were we a vibrational match at one point? it's very hard to know- i don't want anymore frogs! how can u tell if they are or not
Thanks so much Pam you've given me alot to think about. Your advice is very much appreciated i only hope i don't ever have to come back to learn more lessons it really sucks :)
not sure on the smart thing as i still don't know what to look for next time or what to avoid i really don't know what i learned from ken- because he is such a wonderful person