Hello, Sarita and welcome to Just Answer. My apologies that you did not receive an answer earlier. Different experts are online at various times and I just logged in and read your question. I thank you for your patience.Seeing a lot of lights when you came through the door of your cousin's apartment can represent that a problem or situation, once difficult to understand, has now become more clear, enabling you to see the truth in the situation or find the solution to a problem. If the lights were very bright, this indicates that you are being encouraged to move toward a higher level of feeling and awareness and understanding of the situation or problem previously mentioned. The color of the light is also significant, so if it was not just the light from regular light bulbs, let me know the color and this may provide additional information.Seeking a washcloth in your cousin's cabinet signifies that you are trying to clean up a mess (physical or emotional) that was caused in the past, or it may refer to needing to tend to someone's wounds or help a loved one in need with a physical or medical problem.