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You must be in a very difficult position, having to ask this question.
just needing to know
As I connect into this situation, I see the connection between them, but I don't see an emotional, nor a physical affair between them.
I see that they were within physical space of each other through a necessity like work or some other situation that brought them together.
what kind of connection did they have
I see a friendly connection between them, where they were able to communicate well, where there was mutual respect, but it was not a romantic connection.
This girl Megan, she feels much younger than your husband. There is a feeling of known boundaries that should not be crossed by your husband.
what about him andan ex employee named Casey. Thiswould have been between 2009 tp 2011
I also sense a playfulness between him and Casey. I sense that Casey thought played with flirting with him, and that he played back, but I do not see anything that resembles infidelity of mind, heart or body.
did they havean emotional affair?
I see that Casey thought something material could be gained with playing with your husband in this way. That she wanted money, or something else material. I see that your husband's ego may have been inflated by this younger woman's attentions. But her intent was to play him. No, they did NOT have an emotional affair. He never cared for her emotionally
ok thank you
Your husband is deeply connected to you, even though he has trouble expressing it.
He has a hard time with talking about his feelings, but I see in his heart that he would be absolutely devastated if anything ever happened to you, or if you left him. He would be torn apart.
well i am just a little suspicios now because of a sexual affair he had back in 2004. was this the only time he had been with another woman
He is man, he's human and he's able to appreciate a pretty face...he's not dead, lol. But emotionally, this man is yours, all yours.
I do sense the affair, yes, but it was a one-time thing. He has incredible guilt over it.
He has deep remorse over it, in fact, he feels that he will probably be punished for it, in a karmic or spiritual way.
He wants to rebuild trust with you, but he does not know how. He longs for your acceptance, but doesn't know how to acheive it or ask for it.
do i have to worry about this kind of thing in the future
No, he has no intent of making the same mistake again.