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Can you pose your question please? :)
You two work together, you need to act like nothing is wrong.
You are stronger than this, and you need to improve your self talk.
I know there are others who are encouraging you to hang on to him, but he was abusive towards you and he is not a healthy person.
You need to rise above him. You are better than him.
I want you to say this with me out loud...I am asking the Healing Angel to stand over you and witness you say this....
I AM BETTER THAN THIS SITUATION.
Are you with me in chat?
If not, I will need to step away.
This man is no good.
It's your self talk, you have to say, I CAN let go. If you keep saying and typing that you can't let go...guess what? You won't let go.
You have to let go -- what are you going to do, hold on for the rest of your life?
I am sending you healing energy at this moment.
Feel it....I work with Raphael, the archangel, his name means "God Heals"
You WILL heal because you will CHOOSE to heal.
And you're going to hang on even though it brings you to tears because....why?
I'm sorry then I will have to opt out, because I will not encourage you keep your hopes up. When men have feelings, they show it, they don't hold back. It's a common thing for others to tell you "he's afraid to show his feelings." No, this simply isn't true. The only time men are afraid to show they are attracted to a woman, is when she is married.
I have to work according to my ethics, which is never to encourage someone to keep hoping for something that I see will never happen.
I know it's hard to admit you were wrong, but you were wrong about him. This is an important lesson for you to learn.
Anyone that tells you he'll be back... you should take with a grain of salt and consider what their motive is for telling you that.
Opting out...if you need help releasing your attraction to him, please do ask for me.
You can't do it without his cooperation. This is reailty, you can't make him come back. If he wanted to be back, he'd be talking to you, calling you, asking you to join him.
Reality feels much better than chasing a fantasy. You need to learn that you can only control you own response to external things
You'll be in my prayers.