Hello, thank you for requesting me
I see that you're offline -- if you can post your question here, I'll be happy to respond :)
Yes, he had feelings for you my friend.
Those feelings are like flowers growing in the ground, if they aren't nurtured, they whither away. This is what he has allowed to happen.
He's allowed his feelings to change.
He encouraged you, this is true. But he encourage you to feel as you did, without being able to hold up his end of the bargain.
You have to let go of him now, and mange those thoughts and feelings my dear. It's time to change how you perceive him.
He encouraged you to believe that he was something ...that he is not.
No one can reach inside his mind and read it. Men do this. Women do this. It happens all the time.
Your feelings and emotions are yours, but your situation is not unique.
People go into relationships hopeful, and having expecations, but sometimes they cannot follow through once they go so far.
It's time to let go...
it doesn't matter "why"....
If you focus on "why" you will never get an answer.
You have to look at it like the man is blind and a fool. That simple.
No you are not EMPTY...you musn't believe that
you are a strong woman who does not rely upon a man's attention or love in order to know that you are full and beautiful
This is a lesson every, EVERY woman must learn. Most of us learn it the hard way
This is your lesson
Dont' grieve HIM...grieve the fantasy that you loved, the fantasy you created about him and you in the future.
Next time....and there will be a next time...don't allow your mind to play that movie in your head about the future. Take it one day at at time.
I'm sorry, I don't understand?
That's a good thing my friend
You don't want to go from man to man
You WILL love again, I see this in your future
But you have to heal from this one first
You have to LEARN the lesson this teaches or else you will repeat the same mistakes
You both made mistakes
Your mistake was to allow your heart to love him before you had proof that he was worth of that love.
His mistake was encouraging you.
You WILL heal from this, if you WANT to. Or, you can hang on to the pain, I don't think you want that.
Yes, it's over, he's not worthy of you. You deserve better You're not seeing him as he really is. YOu're allowing your fantasy of who you thought he was, to be your reality
He's not the great man you think he is.
YOU are the great woman that you thought he made you.
He didn't make you feel wonderful....YOU did.
YOU made you feel wonderful.
You have to shatter the illusion.
Your Guides step forward here and show me that you are ready to take on this lesson.
You have the strength. Once you see this situation for what it is, only then can you attract to you a man who deserves you.
You have a beautiful vibration and energy about you.
And he cannot
That's revenge and your Guides and Angels are not in support of such an emotion from you
I am going to send you some healing energy, and prayers that you understand this is a lesson that everyone must learn.
We've been chatting for over half an hour now and I must move on.
I know it hurts, I do understand that. But the sun will rise again on your heart, and you WILL laugh, and you WILL feel joy, and you WILL forget him.
You have made him so very important. Now it's time for you to make him unimportant.
Are you going to be ok?
Yes you will be ok
I have to go as well.
You will be stronger than you were before, trust me.