Getting married without first establishing a strong financial footing is tough and can eventually lead to financial stress that ends up placing serious strains on the relationship.

If you are in a relationship with one person, but have not emotionally moved on from a previous relationship, you are not being honest with yourself or your current "boyfriend". You may benefit from some time with a counselor or psychologist to help you sort out the conflicts that you are having with your relationships.

Who is making the real decisions (you mentioned the your family is pressuring you)?
What do you really want in life?

You may want to take some "time out" from relationships to give yourself some time to decompress and "clear you mind" and you heart. This may help you make the decisions about your future relationships.