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I do think you will eventually marry your kids' dad and you will live happier with him.
However, I do think he needs to straighten out a few things first, before he can completely commit to you.
He's involved with someone else now, but it will not last.
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he 'thought' he cared for her, but things are going to fall apart.
she's going to do some things that will make him distrustful of her
he will eventually return to you and your kids, but it might not be right away.
he will either catch her in some lies about her past or he will suspect she is not being faithful to him
I think you should remain in contact with him for the kids' sakes, but don't contact him a lot or he will find this bothersome.
things will start to unravel for them probably in a few months, at the approach of summer
they 'appear' to be getting along well now, but the seeds of distrust have either begun or will begin to appear soon and make him doubtful of her
he is concerned mostly with the kids. he thinks about you when he thinks about the kids, but he is still living with the woman
right now he is very conflicted
he still has a place for you in his heart, but he is struggling with his feelings
this woman thinks she loves him but she will stray from him at some time in the future
i think there is a strong possibility that you will meet another man who will be interested in you, but you will need time to develop feelings for him
are you referring to your kids' father?
oops! we crossed messages!
he will give you part of the money after he sells the townhouse to use for the kids. it might be difficult to sell but he should sell it within a year
it may be right after you meet your new man and you will have to see how things go, to make the best decision for yourself and your kids
i don't think she will give up so easily
probably within about 6-8 months
remember, you make your own destiny
they did have a fight before but it wasn't major enough for them to split
i think if you ask him to stay for a night next month, it has to be for the kids, not for you.
if you come on too strong, he will get nervous
how long has he been with the other woman?
does she have kids living with them now, too?
wow, that's a big age difference!
he wants to see the kids more often, but she doesn't like him coming to see them, because you're there, too
she feels very insecure about him seeing you
she will either end up with someone closer to her own age, or she is a golddigger who keeps going after older men
no, i don't think he will report to her when he sees you, but if they live together, i'm assuming she has to be aware of it
she doesn't feel guilty about you
he will never love her more than he loves his kids
you mean does she suspect he might be cheating on her?
i think it occurs to her rarely, but it does occur to her
i don't think he loves her more than you. i don't think he loves her in the sense of the word 'love'. she's 'convenient' and their relationship was new, but the newness is starting to wear off a little now
SHE thinks she's happy, but deep down she longs for more than he can give her
he thinks he's happy but also, there are things that are nagging at him. yes, he is starting to feel bored with her now
he's still treating her well, but not as well as when they first met
she got used to him spending a lot on her. he will try to do that to keep her around, but it won't last
yes and no. he's still enjoying his life living with her now, but several things about her are starting to bother him.
encourage him to see the kids without 'bugging' him about it and be very nice and loving to him when he is there with the kids, but don't go overboard and make it seem 'fake'. just be yourself, but don't argue with him about things that don't matter.
this has occurred to him, and he does fear it. he doesn't want it to happen
but he knows you will soon meet another man
he will begin to remember why he was in love with you in the first place and wanted kids with you
this much younger woman is just a dalliance for him.
he will eventually come back to you
but you can't push it
i really need to sign off now, as it is almost 3:30 AM for me, so can I answer anything else for you?
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yes, definitely! I would like to know how things are going. but, please, can you post to me in the psychic category--ask for 'Cher ONLY' and i will see your post. You're most welcome and I wish you only the best in the coming weeks!
i don't blame you for feeling mad at him. what he did was not right. i hope he is paying to support the kids!
you can tell him how you're struggling and you really need him to be there more for the kids. they ask for him all the time and can't understand why he doesn't live there anymore.
if he is listed as the legal father of the kids, you can make him pay child support. it's his duty to his kids
'real life' doesn't work that way. you're living real life every day. he's playing in a fantasy--nothing real about it!
he should act his age! how old is he?
he's going through a mid life crisis; that's why the much younger woman
you shouldn't be afraid to ask him to support his kids. you need that money.
oh boy, seems like he has quite a pattern here.
no, his money isn't tight. HE is tight with it!
well, it does seem like he's tight with the money......doesn't want to part with it.
but he should always put his children first!
what type of business do you have?
because he's selfish. your business will be good this year
unless you keep telling him how difficult it is for you without his contribution for his kids' needs, he will not give you anything. you have to keep reminding him.
where do you live?
he will have a good year, financially.
well, although it's not his family's obligation to help--it's HIS--they should know how badly he's behaving
unfortunately, i don't think much will go to you. but, hopefully, if he sells the townhouse, maybe that will be good for you
oh his karma will definitely come back to bite him. probably within the next year or two.
you will need to ask him for money every month for specific things the kids need
oh wow, a little one! i'll bet your two year old is adorable!
he likes to make babies, he doesn't like to provide for them. not nice.
after everything he's done in his past and with you, you deserve much better. keep reminding yourself of that
how does he expect you to care for the 4 children?
yes, his karma will prevent him from happiness. you will live better and happier than him in the future
because you are true to yourself and your children
i really have to sign off now.......we can chat again soon, okay? but remember, to please post in the 'Psychic' category, not General category, okay?
and ask for Cher
you're most welcome! goodnight. : )