Hello 9dabmjer, have to tried Suave or Dove.
Some of my friends tried Suave, and found that when using the conditioner, their hair was weighed down a lot. When they used just the shampoo, it was better, and their hair was lighter. You can try the shampoo/conditioner in one and see if that works for you. Any kind of clarifying shampoo should do the trick.
I have included a list of different brands to help you along.
Clarifying shampoos contain some kind of detergent ingredients that break down the build up on your hair. However it cleans your hair better than the regular shampoo. These products are not meant to be used on daily basis. Use them a couple of times a month. If you use hair gel, hairspray or any other hair styling products more often then the build up occurs more frequently. In such cases you can use clarify shampoo more often.
Best Clarifying Shampoo Brands (Top 10)
Hope this helps.