Hello 4cuxampd, you have to be optimistic. Like I tell everyone, you have to first rededicate yourself to the Lord. He will guide your footsteps. That special person will come along, when that person enters your life, you will know. Some how you will know. This may be someone that you already know, or will find later in life. If you have had a bad year in 2011, I am sorry. Please try to put the past in the past and move on. God will send you someone who will be better than the past ones.