Good day. I am Loren, a licensed attorney, and I look forward to assisting you.
Who will not give any information? What information are they seeking? Have they called the college in Belize to confirm it exists and that the student they are assisting is actually enrolled?
Thank you for the additional information. I am sorry to hear of your dilemma. I realize how frustrating this is for you and I hope to provide you information which is accurate and useful, even though it may not be the news you were hoping to get.
Without an appointment as a guardian or conservator your options are extremely limited. Without any further information or cooperation from your inlaws, there is not much you can legally do other than hire a private investigator to see if they can uncover some of the details and trace the payments..
Otherwise, a legally competent adult is allowed to spend or give their money away however they want. The circumstances you describe certainly have an appearance of impropriety, but there is not much you can do about it, unless you have grounds to declare your father legally incompetent.
I realize this is probably not the answer you were hoping to receive. Also, please remember that this is not a moral judgement on my part. As a professional, however, I am sometimes placed in the position of having to deliver news which is not favorable to a customer's legal position, but accurately reflects their position under the law. I hate it, but it happens and I only ask that you not penalize me with a bad or poor rating for having to deliver less than favorable news.