There are wires and modules you will need to install to install the switch. You will need to be good with electrical and reading wiring diagrams to install the switch.
Basically what happened is you installed the 2001 instrument cluster.
Shortly afterward, 1 month, you had a flat tire.
The cluster you installed has TPMS set up in it.
Your original 2003 cluster did not have it.
The tire light will only come on if a tire is low.
Your 2003 Windstar does not have the TPMS set up in it.
The 2001 Windstar that the cluster came out of did.
Now that the light is on, you can not reset it because your 2003 does not support TPMS.
The only way you can make the light go out is to remove the bulb.