Thank you for asking your question on JustAnswer. 10-20 lbs is normal, based on your description the most common cause is the Heater Core itself there is too much heat loss between the two hoses.
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Thank you for the reply, no not the blend door, the blend door actuator (very common failure). It could be very possible, that the water pump is not doing the job as well. No thermal coupler.