there is no power to the connector. The wire and connector is good, I can force power back and the fuel pump runs.
the "No...click here" option is not working. It takes me to the homework helper
Sounds like the computer is not energizing the fuel pump relay. If this is the case, the computer may not be powering up. This could be because of several reasons. Missing powers or grounds. Maybe even bad ignition switch. (Make sure the check engine light comes on with the key in the on position).
Or, maybe the fuel pump relay is not getting powered up from the pcm relay. Then this would make sense because the same power that powers up the fuel pump relay, powers up the injectors.
You are going to have to start at the beginning. See if the pcm relay is getting powered up and that the circuit is working. THen move on to the fuel pump relay.
Here is the wiring diagram for this circuit.