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You cannot ask the Judge to order him to get a job - this is not something that can be done.
What CAN be done is that someone in your situation can make the argument to the Judge that he is underemployed on purpose and thus, that factor should be considered when the Judge decides on alimony. The Court will consider this when it is time to decide one alimony, and that factor can possibly be enough to have the Court minimize or deny alimony.
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