Thank you. We are supposed to be using the third party sight but she goes back and forth to the third party sight and to my personal phone. Can I block her from my phone, text wise. If she ever does shows up to get the kids on her weekend then I could turn the block off until they are back home again. RIGHT?Another thing is: During mediation
, she is saying that a small company I have is worth 3 times what it really is. It is such a small company, equipment for TV commercials, and is not worth a lot anymore as the equipment is over 3 years old. It depreciates fast. I told her she can have it appraised at any time she wants. I am barely making it and she wants everything on a silver platter. I have nothing to give...I gave all my financials to my atty and he showed her and the mediator but she refuses to believe I have nothing to give her. She has not made any attempt to have my equipment appraised. I gave the total of everything. My wife walked out on us back in January and chose a wild lifestyle. Now, she thinks she can ask for the house and the kids, alimony
and more. Our children have suffered more than I can even begin to explain. I lost my career because she walked out and deserted me and our kids. It has been 11 months since she left and she blames me for her not seeing the kids. She tried to steal them a few times. She was doing drugs and her boyfriend is a fugitive. So, I would only allow her to come here to see them to go to the park, out to eat, etc. I could not trust her to take them off. Drug testing will be part of the trial if it gets to that point. She has said such hateful things and like I said earlier, will not do anything someone else tells her to do. She is ashamed of what she has done and is lashing out at me. I am so tired of her tirades and pray so hard for this to be over. But I need her to go by the rules and especially not run me down. I do not have a motion about her running me down and blaming me to our kids. They are going through so much pain, anger and feelings of worthlessness. I wish there was more I could do to protect them and make this easier. I want our kids to see their mother
but not with so much disappointment when she doesn’t show and them wants to come whenever it fits her schedule. Isn’t there something I can do to make all this easier.
?? How can she accuse me of having more than I have and not have the proof to say it. That is so wrong. Why is that allowed??? Why doesn’t she owe some child support
the 11 months she has been gone? She worked part time for 3 years before walking out. She has had 11 months to do “something” for our kids. She has done NOTHING?? At what point do I tell the judge she is not showing up on her weekends and get some help with all this??? Should I have her drug tested now, with her erratic behavior and not showing up it seems the smart thing to do? And, when she does not get her way, she is NON STOP with her texts and insults. Isn’t there someway to alleviate this. It is brutal and so unnecessary, I refuse to stoop to her level but I am needing a breather. Your suggestions? Can they reprimand her and tell her to stop the tirades AND stop sending them to our 12 year old son. It is hurting him so much.?? Lastly, how will a judge look at the fact that when she walked out, I had to give up my job to be with our kids. We were fixing to move to Atlanta and she just took off. I was already working up there and coming home on weekends or she would come up. I came home for the holidays and we were getting the house ready to list and she leaves. POOF. Did not even say goodbye to the kids. She wrote me a letter saying she was leaving and wanted her own life, she would never take the kids, etc. She said she was jealous of me., and so on. I had a 6 figure job and now it is gone. I would never desert our kids and with this little company and some commercial work locally I am able to just get by. Will she look bad in the judges eyes that I had to give up my job? She walked out on hers. All we have is debt and nothing to show for all my work. She took our 21 charge cards this past year and they are all sitting there. In her name. THIS is what I am facing.Thank you for answering me and for your help.