my husband and I go to court in sacramento CA on the 10thof this month for a restraining order
I filed in Sept. we went once but it was rescheduled for the 10th because the judge wanted to review all the many documents I attached for abuse. since then my husband and I have set some rules for ourselves and want to submit to the judge on the 10th. Is there a special form for that or should I just type it up and both of us sign? I still want restraining order but only the conduct order for 5 years. There are some things I will pass on and want the judge to know what they are. I do want alimony
as I am raising my grandson that my husband and I have legal guardianship
of and I want my husband to take some responsibility for him such as every other weekends to give me some kind of break. other things im asking is to make sure he puts back on all insurance policys as beneficiary, back on bank account that he revoked my card for. 50/50 split on all saved and accumulated money from tenants in our 2 rentals. Pay my health insurance and life insurance policys and give me copys of all life insurance policys and copy of living trust. put my name back on 3 banks that hold our mortgage for 3 homes so I can retrieve information when I need to. Can you please give me some ideas of what form I need to do. Also we are not divorcing. I live in our motorhome with my grandson and he has the family home which I don't because its way to much and exspencive for me and we do plan to rent it out and split overflow from rent each month. thank you
JA: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?
Customer: Sacramento CA
JA: Has anything been filed or reported?
Customer: yes all documents for restraining order and we have had one hearing that the judge moved to Nov 10th because we were the last to me called that day and he wanted to review all the documents I provided. I gave copys of all the bank info and loans I could get my hands on. My husband just wrote up an exspence sheet that he could put any numbers on. He has with held financial info from me for 44 yrs of our marriage
. he is 76 I am 63 and not interested in a divorce
due to the age factors.
JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?
Customer: no thx