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I will try and help. All that is happening is that the attorney is attempting to fulfill the terms of the will in that your husbands father left property to his children. This property will be solely and separately owned by your husband. To that extent, yes, they are trying to protect the property from claims by you should you divorce. Should you be worried? No. This happens all the time and frankly, it is not unreasonable for his father to want to ensure that should you divorce, his home stay with his son (and/or) daughter only.
Frankly, the best way to proceed is to let your husband receive the property the way his father intended. In the future if he wants you to have half or own it too, he can execute an interspousal grant deed and add your name to it.
I hope this helps.
Yes, this will hold up in court without you signing. What they are attempting to do is keep it separate - at least until it becomes his. That is not unreasonable. If he adds your name to it, you certainly would have a claim. You would also have a claim if it appreciates in value during the marriage, or if he spends marital funds on it after he gets it.
Were things reversed, you would probably feel the same way, and keep in mind this may more reflect the wishes of his father than him.
I am worried that you are worried about your marriage. What is happening here is not at all unusual and they are not trying to screw you - at least not directly. All that is happening is they are trying to receive this as his and his alone so that should you divorce, this will be his separately. Going forward if he puts it in your name or spends marital money on it, they you will have a claim, but his attorney would be negligent it he allowed him to receive a gift in a way that it was also immediately yours when that was not the intention of the giver.
Best of luck to you.