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Hi! I'm Heather. I've been a practicing attorney for the last 15 years, and I'd be happy to assist you for informational and educational purposes.
This is a really hard issue that I have seen alot. If you get an order directing law enforcement to assist you, they can remove her (eeek forcibly).
Yes, you can file a complaint against the therapist's licensing board. I have done this many times and the therapists will usually be threatened by their licensing board to stop seeing the child at once or risk being disciplined.
Your wife has probably told your daughter to say she refuses, and so your daughter now knows exactly what to do to stay. There's really not a great answer here, but it might be better to get her sooner rather than later, because the longer you wait, the more likely she is to stay with her mother on a permanent basis.
This is up to the officer discretion. The particular officer is making a choice.
If the police won't help, file a motion for court ordered therapy and for your daughter to see the therapist at least 2 times a week with a therapist selected by you, and ordering the mother to take the daughter, and the therapist told that you are to be involved and participate in the therapy with the goal of the therapy being finding out why the strain in the relationship with you and your daughter and fixing that issue.
Then you argue to the judge that as a custodial parent, the custodial parent should be able to control the child enough to get them to go to therapy. I have seen people try to argue that to a judge, and the judge usually ends up yelling at them.
If she can't get the child to go to therapy, she is not fit to have custody.
You could try getting the judge to hold the mother in contempt of court for disobedience of the court's order and order that she go to jail for 30 days, and you will have to get the child back so mom can be thrown in jail.
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