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The only grounds for divorce in California is that the spouses have irreconcilable differences. If you believe that the two of you can work things out, you're disputing whether grounds for divorce exist. That's the second option.
The first option is rarely used - it's for when there isn't a marriage at all, and you want the judge to dismiss the case. The third is for if you also want the judge to end your marriage.
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