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Hi and welcome to JA. Ray here to help you today.Please bear with me a few moments while I review your question and respond.
Here if you have physical custody you absolutely can say no.You have the legal right to decide where the child lives and until a court changes that you are the person in control.You should not let the ex intimidate you .You can report him a s a runaway in California if he leaves without your permission.As the person with physical custody you have the final say in all of this.
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