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You are going to have to go to court.
In this case you would have "standing" since you have had the child in your possession for so long. You could likely get orders pretty quickly and you may even be able get emergency orders since the child is that age and is upset. You will, of course, need an attorney but the chances of you being successful are very high.
A child is never able to "choose" where they want to live or who they want to live with but in OK at age 12 they can let the judge know their choice as to where they want to live. While it isn't mandatory that the judge follow what the child chooses it is likely that they would in circumstances like yours.
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