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Unfortunately, because your ex wife is the biological mother and the doctor's office only legally has to take direction from either of the biological parents, your ex wife can protest this designation and ask that she be excluded from the process and the doctor's office really has no choice but to comply. In the event that you have a court hearing coming up for any issues in the not too distant future at the family court, you CAN bring this issue up in front of the judge and if he or she orders this to happen then your ex cannot challenge it.
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