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Are you asking if you can get divorced without serving her personally with the divorce petition?
Ok, then if you can't find this person to serve them with a divorce petition, you can still get divorced, you just have to file a motion with the court and ask the judge to get "service by publication" where you put a notice in the paper once a week for a set number of weeks, usually 3-4, of the divorce petition and then the judge will consider the person served.
You can then continue on and get a default divorce judgment against your spouse.
As part of the petition you will have to provide information about the situation and what steps you have tried to locate the person and have failed to do so. Then the judge should grant your request to get service by publication.
But as an aside, if her true legal name is ***** ***** name that is on the marriage license, then you didn't marry that person so arguably you aren't legally married to anyone..
However, just to be on the safe side, I would go ahead with the service by publication just to make sure you have a clear and definite divorce on the record.