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I'm sorry this is happening. It's really difficult when teens don't want to go to visit. I represent children in my state and I know you can't make a teen go where the teen doesn't want to go.
As a custodial parent, you're supposed to foster a relationship between your children and your ex, no matter how difficult you might find it. Despite the reasons behind your break-up, experts agree that in the vast majority of circumstances, it is very important that children maintain good relationships with both parents, and that the parents work together to achieve that goal.
As a practical matter, you can be in trouble if you don't comply with the court's order on visitation. Your ex can ask the judge to hold you in contempt of court if you are intentionally not complying with the visitation order by not sending your child for visitation. The bot***** *****ne is that you are the parent, and you are responsible for your child's actions. Thus, it is you who will be responsible, and who may have to answer to the court, if your child doesn't visit as ordered.
Teenagers, present a real problem. You cannot physically force a 16 year old boy to visit with his father if he doesn't want to. Threatening your teen with punishment or restricting his freedom is not likely to get what you want in this circumstance, either.
Because the custodial parent typically cannot make a teenager visit as ordered, then the court is unlikely to find the parent in contempt of court for failing to comply with the visitation order. Unfortunately, this leaves the non-custodial parent of a rebellious teenager largely without a remedy for enforcing his visitation order.
However, at this time, with one bad visit, the court will not permit the change in visitation. The court will want you to have your son try again and maybe next time he and his dad can talk things over so that this doesn't happen again. It is typical for teens to act out, especially when parents were split up.
Legally, you will have to wait to modify the parenting plan/visitation if this continues. If your son doesn't go again and again, be prepared for your ex to take you to court, and you don't want that. Discuss with your son that he should talk to his father on the phone, Skype or whatever, and work things out before the next visit.
If after a few visits your son still doesn't want to go, then you can file a modification petition for change of visitation/parenting plan. In the meantime, I'd suggest to see what you can do to talk your son into talking to his father and explain that he was mad and let the two guys talk it out. A modification petition/motion can happen if these visits are still an issue after another month or two.
Does this help you and answer your question?