I have lived in Florida for 3 years with our three daughters, following my divorce
. Yet, my husband, who lives in Wisconsin, has twice tried to bring me into court for hearings to repeatedly request to reduce child support
once he is out of teaching for the summer. The first time it was reduced in 2014 from approximately $1500/month to $428/month. Now, even though WI Child support located him for non-payment of that at his workplace at the university, and he had never reported it, he wants to bring me back into court to have it reduced to $90 because he is "unemployed". Also, due to a prior 4-year stalking & harassment restraining order
against him, he is only allowed to visit with our children at one of his Florida relatives' houses for June and July and one week during their Christmas school break. Yet, he is also now claiming that , due to his "unemployment", he does "not have the 'wherewithal' to be able to make a trip to Florida". Thus, he is requesting that his visitation
be allowed to be changed, allowing our three young girls to visit him in his dangerous, crime-ridden, inner-city neighborhood that he moved to in Milwaukee, to make it more financially feasible/convenient for him to see them, during his supposed "unemployment".
First, this house he wants them to visit was purchased against court orders, during our pending divorce, using joint marital assets, while he lied to the court saying he was "homeless". Second, he is a mentally unstable, hostile person, who barely ever calls his daughters, even on Friday, when he is supposed to. Also, he only speaks to them for less than one minute each, then says he "has to get back to work". Furthermore, the court made an error and accidentally sealed his address in addition to mine, which was legally allowed to be sealed due to his the restraining order against him. So, when he went to correct it, apparently, he listed my address as his former address. I am assuming his relatives gave it to him. I am not sure. Now, on the public records website in Wisconsin, they show my supposedly "sealed" address, as his "former address". So, he then mails a certified notice of a hearing he has requested to make these child support and visitation changes to my current address. Yet, he claims on the actual pro se
form that I have an "unknown address due to it being sealed by the court commissioner." The fact that he is continuing to be able to stalk and harass me years later is unbelievable. Why can't I get the case moved to Florida? I was told that even though the four of us live in Florida, that since he still lives in Wisconsin, it has to stay there, making it convenient and easily accessible for him to use the court as a tool for harassment, bringing meritless matters there and requests for changes that have already been heard 2 or 3 times already. How is allowed to get away with this? Isn't there anything that can be done about this?