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Are you asking how to go about adopting them as adults?
Ok, if this is an adult adoption then this is covered under NJ Rule 5:11 which says that you have to file a formal petition for the adoption of the adult listing all their information. If a name change is requested, it has to be submitted as well.
Then a consent by your spouse if you are married agreeing to the adoption.
Then an affidavit basically stating that no one is being forced to do this.
Then there is a hearing where everyone appears, the judge asks if this is what everyone wants, then he enters the order approving the adoption.
This is the specific rule and requirements:
RULE 5:11. Action for Adoption of Adult
(a) Complaint. In every action for the adoption of an adult, the complaint shall state (1) the name, age and place of residence of the plaintiff and the person to be adopted; (2) the name by which the person to be adopted shall thereafter be known; (3) whether the person to be adopted is possessed of any property, with a full description thereof, if any.
(b) Written Requests to Accompany Complaint. There shall be filed with the complaint a request in writing for the adoption and, if desired, the change of name, which request shall be signed by the person to be adopted and shall be acknowledged before an officer qualified to take acknowledgements of deed.
(c) Consent of Spouse, Civil Union or Domestic Partner. There shall be filed with the complaint a certification by any non-adopting spouse, civil union or domestic partner consenting to the adoption.
(d) Affidavit of Verification and Non-Collusion. There shall be attached to every complaint for adoption an oath or affirmation by the plaintiff(s) that the allegations of the complaint are true to the best of the party's knowledge, information and belief, and that the pleading is made in truth and good faith and without collusion for the causes set forth therein.
(e) Court Hearing. The court may hear the case upon the oral testimony of the parties to the action and of other persons as the court deems necessary
The court clerk may have standard template forms for each required filing, but if not you may have to contact a local family law attorney to have them assist in drafting them.
You are very welcome. Glad to help any time. And it is a pretty painless process, you just need to file the requested documents and then appear for a short hearing with the judge.