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I'm Lucy, and I'd be happy to answer your questions today. I'm sorry to hear about your situation.
What does the custody/support order say about this stuff? Have you already paid for it?
I have a parental agreement that in another agreement my wife signed states said she would sign it and hasn't to my knowledge. Do I refer to that agreement or the PA default law?
Usually, you'd look first to your specific court order, then to any signed agreements, then the general law. That's because judges have a lot of discretion when making decisions. You don't have to pay 60% of all expenses if you don't have a court order that says you do. An unsigned agreement doesn't have any legal weight.
You may be able to get the court order changed, but it helps me to know first what it says (if anything).
I am paying through domestic relations $660/mn. Is it in that paperwork Id' find the court order? we just went to domestic relations and agreed on a number. Does this mean there is no court order defining the terms? What should I do?
There should be something in writing that says what you're paying. If it ONLY says you pay $660/month, you never have to pay more than that. The mother would have to take you back to court to modify the order.
You do have the ability to file a Motion to Modify Custody, asking the judge to allow you to share in the legal decision-making process. But check first to see if she's even allowed to claim compensation or if the monthly payment is supposed to cover everything. It's common for the non-custodial parent to have to share uninsured medical expenses, but not as common to have to pay more than half of ALL child-rearing in expenses in addition to child support.
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