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You should likely have a lawyer. if you can't afford one, look for legal assistance in your community. If there's no current order of custody, she's not technically breaking any laws. If there is a hearing on the domestic violence charge, you should attend that hearing and offer your defense. That's the best way to get the order of protection dropped. Otherwise, unfortunately you must abide by the order or risk arrest and other consequences.
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