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Hello there --
You are legally permitted to work out any payment schedule of child support that you wish to work out so long as it is fair and equitable for the child and the child will receive adequate support. Here, with your calculations, although you may be losing about ten percent of house value, you are right to worry about collecting child support internationally -- the US does have agreements with many western european countries to pursue child support (such as england and germany) but it is much more difficult to collect with countries in other areas of the world. Regarding your section question -- that is also legally correct -- the court will not force a non custodial parent to pay for private school OR college tuition and those are two subjects that if you can get him to agree on these (to pay a portion of them) in your written agreement filed with the court then you can enforce such payments through the family court if he does not make the payments in the future. Again, though, you may run into the problem of him residing in another country and if that happens you may have a harder time collecting the tuition money than child support (perhaps you can recover the ten percent in house value that you may be losing by getting him to agree to help finish up paying for the private school -- but again, the court cannot force him to do that).
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Hello again --
It does not matter regarding the public school situation -- the court will generally not enforce a request for private school unless the non custodial parent is very wealthy and can afford to pay for it without issues at all. If that is the case, then you should make the request of the court and see what happens.
Regarding modification of child support -- such a clause is NOT legal and will not be enforced by a family court. You see, a family court maintains continuing jurisdiction over child support in divorce cases and if either party applies for a modification the court will modify if there is an increase or decrease in the reportable income that is given by the non custodial parent. You should tell your ex to drop the penalty clause because if he suddenly hits the lottery you can and will apply for increased child support and the court will not even LOOK at the clause in the agreement regarding penalties for requesting a change in child support.
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