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Good Afternoon. I hope I can help aid you with this situation. Based on the terms of the custody agreement you have stated in your question, the father is required to give 45 days notice...IN WRITING. That is step one in requesting extended vacation time. Apparently he did not follow this specific requirement for the extended time. Even though the agreement states neither party shall withhold a reasonable request, that generally only applies if both parties have followed the terms of the agreement. The father did not follow the 45 day written rule.
In order to uphold the agreement you will need to contact your family law attorney. Your attorney may want to send a certified letter stating the terms of the agreement. After that you may need to have a hearing before the Orange County Family Judge to have the agreement enforced.
If the father keeps your daughter without your permission, he will be in violation of the custody agreement and you will need to file a Motion in Family court.
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