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The answer to this question depends in part on what you want to do.
If you report this to the police as a domestic violence incident, the person will get arrested and become the defendant in a criminal case. A criminal order of protection will be automatically issued on your behalf and will remain while the case is ongoing and for a time afterwards to be determined by the judge if the defendant is convicted by plea or verdict.
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I'm no sure what you're asking. Are you saying you'd rather not get him charge but just want an order?
Because you could just get the order through the civil court, but with serious threats of violence and what you're describing, you may be better served by a criminal order.
One difference is that with a criminal order the court will maintain ongoing contact with him as the case proceeds. With the civil order, you can use the incident as grounds to get the order, but once it is converted from a temporary to a permanent order after the hearing, he's not going to be monitored by the court.
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No, you cannot file for a protective order on line. If you're not interested in going to the police and getting charges pressed, you would have to go to civil court and get a form to petition for a protective order.
A civil judge would review your petition and grant you a temporary order. You would have to get someone to serve that order on the defendant. Then you would have a hearing you would both have to attend in order to convert that order from a temporary order to a permanent order.
You'd have the burden of having to show by clear and convincing evidence that you need such an order. You'd have to present evidence -- your testimony, witnesses, texts, emails, voice messages, photos -- what have you supporting your position. He'd get a chance to present evidence to try to show that he was not a threat to you and that you don't need an order.
After all the evidence is in, the judge rules and either lifts the order and dismisses the matter or grants you a permanent order of protection. YOu could read more about the civil order in this overview of the process here.
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