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I'm Lucy, and I'd be happy to answer your questions today. I'm sorry to hear that your ex-fiancee is doing this.
The elements of a defamation claim are:
With certain types of statement, reputational harm is PRESUMED because they're so bad. That means, if you can prove that she made the statements, the judge will assume you were harmed by them and you won't have to prove additional damage. Falsely accusing someone of any crime - including child abuse - falls within that category. Based on what you're saying, you do have a civil claim against her. Libel is written defamation, slander is oral. You're allowed to sue for either or both, depending on how she's making the statements.
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If the statements were ONLY made in court, she's protected. But since they were made up, that's malicious prosecution. You can actually sue for the cost of paying a lawyer to have the charges dropped and the order dismissed.
Your lawyer can subpoena witnesses to testify as to the comments she made to them, and that is good evidence. It's not considered hearsay, because you're not admitting the statements to prove they're true (the opposite, actually - you're saying they're false. What's relevant is that she made them).
They're protected from a defamation claim, but not from a malicious prosecution claim.