My daughter went to Buffalo ny in 2009 for a respite. She stayed with her father, never set up house there, never owned a car. In 2010 she became pregant, the baby daddy denied it was his, offered her money to terminate. He was MIA for the 9 mths, including refusing to answer calls about medical history.My daughter had a very high risk pregnancy due to having cancer, she was told she could not get pregant in 2007. A DNA test proved he was the father, he has paid child support
, never gave baby his name, & some what refused to co parent. My daughter wants to return to Florida now, her family is here.Her support system is here as is all her furniture. She gave it 5 yrs, & feels that Florida is home, not Buffalo. BabyDaddy is threatning to stop the move.He see's child 4-5xs a month, but has nothing to do with mother
. His parents see child maybe 6-7xs a year. They refuse to speak to my daughter at all.The child is not allowed to talk to his mother if he is at grandparents house, nor is child allowed to bring home any gifts or toys. Child really doesn't know them...The other concern is that when father does have child at his house, he is always drunk, doesn't call my daughter when child is sick with 104* temp, or strep throat, or bronchitis.Nor does he take child to hospital or clinic. He is a sicklychild . Aiden (child) .is now 5, very smart , & tells us everything regarding father "drinking beer, falling asleep, not feeding him". Numerous times my daughter has had to drive to pick up Aiden from father, as he was unable to drive or speak coherantly.Child will be starting school in August. There is no one to assit either parent with helping to have school run smoothly. Ie, get Aiden on/ off bus, watch till Mother gets home from work. How can he stop her from coming home?