The police report only involves BJ, my sons father, and Bonnie, BJ's mother. CPS has opened a case against BJ, myself, and Caleb, our son. Bonnie is the one who filed the report with CPS. Friday, March 25, 2016 I had cleaned the kitchen Bonnie came in that evening. Caleb and I left, BJ stayed to take a shower. I was to come back and pick him up when we were done. BJ called telling me his mom was upset that I had cleaned the kitchen (I had only cleaned the walls) and he threw some of her cooking utensils away and then she left as she told me the same thing. I picked him up and went to his grandfathers as we already planned. Saturday March 26, we went back home, Bonnie's house. I went to open the door and it was locked (isn't unusual) she came to the door and said we were no longer allowed there and we could get our belongings Sunday. I did not argue I turned around and walked away BJ wanted to know why I was getting back in the car I told him what she said.
He was a "mommys boy" he went to talk to her he told me to come get some things and he would set with Caleb in the car I grabbed a few of our things and apologized and went to the car. He then went in and got a some of his things and came back out. She was saying something she was inside and we were out he went back in to see what she wanted he told me to leave he would call to come get him he had to help her with sewage. I received a phone call 15 min later saying the law were going to our residence. I called the disbatcher to see what was going on I was told there was a standoff situation. I made numerous calls trying to contact officers that were on the call nobody called til 3 am I was at my mothers. The information given was false. He needed to contact them because she had called 911 sometime that night and filed a domestic battery Friday night. He had not been told about this. He left minutes after I left. They thought he was around the house. The officer they needed to talk to him but a domestic was filed Friday. They wanted me to find him and turn himself in. He called early in the am Bonnie had left. He was going to turn himself in later that day it was Easter. As we were leaving our road several state troopers were parked BJ stopped and got out they arrested him. He has 6 charges one being a felony and 2 domestics assault and a battery. She made a false allegation that 14 days, March 13, BJ and I were arguing and she shielded Caleb and he pushed her on a bed. None of this happened there was no arguement. She does not have any proof or pictures of this (domestic assault
charge)(domestic battery is cooking utensils threw in trash).
Bonnie called CPS over the domestic. Monday, March 28 BJ's sister Traci called me and said a CPS worker wanted me to call. I called and she wanted to me to come to the DHHR to see if Caleb and I were "ok". We were not in any threat but since I could not guarantee Caleb I could keep Caleb, if BJ got released from jail and wanted to hurt us, I could not protect him. They were taking him out of my custody and putting him with my parents in a 7day protection plan with my parents. I could be with him at all times but I could not be alone or take him anywhere. If I did not agree to this the state would take him. I did sign the 7 day protection plan. I had to file a dvp in order to get him back in which the magistrate denied due to no physical harm, threats, or domestic charges between us. I did not feel we were in danger. Caleb and I were ordered through CPS not to have any contact with BJ it was not written on paper. After the 7 days Caleb was returned back in our custody. I was told I could have made contact during those 7days after being told I couldn't Caleb was the only one who couldnt and still couldn't until otherwise instructed by them and it would be supervised visits. I was not given nor signed any kind of paperwork but told a case is being opened. They let us go. She did not collect any evidence nor talk to anyone but Bonnie and I during that 7days. As he was being released Thursday, March 6 she came to the jail did not speak with him instead she would visit him Friday 7, at his grandpas. I called Friday to ask if he could see Caleb since she would be there and she said " He is the custody of both of you that is your decision. 20 min later I called back with information to give her in a job and wig appointment. She then said Caleb or I were not allowed to have contact at all until she looked at his release papers. No where does it say on them he can't have contact with Caleb and I. She has found out Bonnie has lied on her report, her stories are different in what she put on her police report. She still has no evidence of any child neglect. We have several people willing to back us up including doctors and nurses. She told BJ we could have contact because there is nowhere saying we can't but she doesn't recommend it