I was married in 1993 became permanently disabled in 2000. In 2003 or 2004 my husband asked me to leave his house and go to my own house after several disagreements
over his crack addicted grown son. I left. Three years ago he filed for divorce
in Compton. He was already retired under Calpers. He told me I would be his beneficiary
after his demise and I said fine that I was concerned mostly with continued medical benefits and reimbursement of the monies for medication since he received all the checks
from Blue Cross. We were going to work things out amicably until I realized he was running a game, i.e. destroying my papers that would substiante any proof that were physically together well over 10 years. My disability is my back, legs (bone marrow issues) and right hand as well as PTSD. I finally hired an attorney. My father paid for the attorney. After almost three years and $6K nothing has been resolved.
I am a Veteran and am trying to keep my cool but I have endured so much in the marriage
which started when we returned from the honeymoon and found the wedding gifts had been given to the CRIPs gang by his daughter and later she robbed my house in La Palma. Several months ago, he broke the balance of our gifts in the trash with
the neighbor looking,
Note: My first husband's friend lives here part time when he is working to help me out.
No sex involved. In my condition I am not interested in sex. I have Interstitial cystis
which is so painful they use DMSO to treat it as well as well intestinal protrusion through the vaginal wall. I do want his property in Compton. I have always told him it should
go to his kids. I am still paying for my home in LA PALMA with SSI and 200.00 per month from Bethlehem Steel and 130.00 from the VA for surgical stockings to help the legs.