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It basically depends on how many you both agree to. Even if you have full physical custody, you would typically equally share holidays... and the type of schedule is based on what you both want - so you can say you get Christmas even years and he gets Christmas odd years, and you get Spring Break odd years and he gets Spring Break even years. But, largely, courts really like to let parents decide for themselves if they are able to work it out. Does that make sense? If you have specific suggestions I can tell you if I think it is something a court may agree to...
I need you to clarify this: "now saying unless I follow his schedule and not get to pick our son up until he says then he is not letting me have our son." He's saying unless you to agree to share every holiday he won't return your son to you?
Also, just some additional clarification I'll need you to provide me with: what is 9-1. You get your son for 9 days and he gets him for 1 day??
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