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HelloThis is Samuel and I will discuss this and provide you information in this regard. I am sorry to hear of your situation.First, if you have made the house your home and have established a legal residence, which is appears you have with over a 3 year period, you do not need to leave until she files for an eviction and it is ordered by the court. That is not to say that a court won't order it. But only that you will not need to leave until then.As far as your contributions and your retirement, etc, based on her verbal promise that you and she would share everything, if you are evicted, you still can take her to court to sue her for what you feel you are entitled to in the way of contributions based on that verbal promise. Maybe you have witnesses who heard these conversations over the years. You do not need to return anything to her, either, unless she gets a court order saying you do. But it appears you have a good grounds to argue in your defense on issues of what you contributed based on her promise of your two sharing everything and also any gift to you from her is a gift that a court would not ordered returned.I suggest you can consider the following:1 - Ignore her requests to leave but2- Consult with a local attorney. You don't want her making up stories against you, such as you have abused her and then she could get a restraining order against you. A local attorney will be able to work things out with her on your behalf.
3 - See if the attorney can contact her on your behalf and discuss some sort of family counseling and at the very least perhaps mediation to help settle this and keep it out of court.
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