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Are you saying that the mother has passed the the father is refusing to let the grandparent and aunt see any children?
Have the children lived with the grandparents or aunt for any amount of time?
Ok, thank you for that information. Very simply, grandparents can petition for visitation in limited circumstances, but other relatives like aunts or uncles have no such rights.
Under NY law, grandparents can file for visitation if one parent is deceased. The only other condition that is mentioned in the statute is "where circumstances show that conditions exist which equity would see fit to intervene."
So basically if it would be unfair to the grandparents and the grandchildren not to see each other where one parent was deceased, the court can grant visitation as long as the judge thinks it is in the "best interests of the child", which is the standard that they use..
If grandparents wanted to pursue this, then they would have to file a formal visitation action in family court in NY to request a visitation order from the judge setting up a schedule.
So does this mean that due to the distance there is no chance that we can at least get calls or pictures, or letters? And even though i am Godmother to the 9yo, i have not rights except in the church?
Unfortunately, the answer is yes to both questions. The only state with jurisdiction is NY, so any action would have to be filed there. And a Godparent doesn't have any legal standing at all as this is a symbolic position..
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She could hire an attorney, but she would eventually have to actually appear in court for any hearings on the matter in front of the judge..
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