My girlfriend lives in Texas, and I'm in Arizona. The following will sound a little crazy, so let me preface this to say that we dated 15 years ago, and I've always thought that she was 'the one that got away', and was extremely excited when she contacted me out of the blue. I have been supporting her since she left her husband mid-2014 (paid for her attorney(s), expenses, etc. She has a 3 year old child that she receives child support
for, but has no other income (except me). Until September of last year I have been transferring money into her account to cover her rent and expenses. Last September I downsized in Arizona (leased a condo), and moved to Texas (90% of my belongings are in Texas). I have been flying back/forth 2 to 3 times a month as a I have a business here in Arizona. The relationship is not working out, and she has been very difficult telling me that she's going to pack up my belongings and put them in storage (I have a storage unit in Texas where the majority of my belongings have been stored while we were looking for a larger home). Problem is, I don't have a key to the storage unit and she won't give it to me (she set it up for me, although I pay for it). Also, I'm concerned about getting back my belongings - I've got computers, office equipment, almost all of my clothes and personal items in the house. I want this to go smoothly, but don't want to waste a trip going out there if she is not going to cooperate. I'm guessing that I need to get an attorney, but kind of attorney? Also, I have an amazing relationship with her daughter, and so I do not want to do anything that would create any type of hardship. I just want my belonging back, and I want her to stop using my cc's (forgot about that, she has my debit card #***** and although she doesn't go crazy, she's still using it for on-line orders).