My name is***** share joint legal custody with my sons father. His wife, however, is interfering in my ability to parent my child. She calls all the shots and my sons father allows it to avoid conflict. I constantly ask his father to co-parent with me. Tell me about medical appointments, after school activities, summer camps, etc. He does none of this. I carry the insurance and I am never informed of any visits to any doctors. I have had to resort to calling the doctors and requesting a copy of his medical records. My name is ***** ***** any of the contact information, that is to say, if anything happens with my son, I will know nothing about it. I had to go to the school and have the contact information include me as well. I had to tell them if a field trip permission slip is signed, I need to know who signs it. I also have to agree if I feel he should attend the activity. My son does not see his parents being parents. He does not see us as a unified front actively parenting him. We never talk to him just as the three of us, as we should. I am in the process of building a case against the both of them alleging tortious interference of parental rights
by parental and third party interference. Please excuse my spelling. I am going to ask for modification of custody as well. I am building a strong case including what is in the best interest of my child. My child should not grow up thinking this is normal parenting. Essentially, co-parenting is going on with his step mother
and father, and he sees me as a completely separate entity. He never sees me taking him to the doctor, rather, his step mother takes him. He sees them attending one parent conference, and myself attending another. His father and I should be attending these conferences together, right? He should not see that his step mother does not speak to his paternal grandmother or aunt. He should not know his stepmother is trying to say his mother and grandmother and aunt should have no contact. She feels it is "inappropriate". He should not see that his grandmother is not allowed over the house anymore because of all the fighting that has happened in front of him. He should be with a parent who will foster a strong family unit who all get along and love him and each other. That is what I will do. I feel all the red flags are there for future parental alienation
syndrome. That's how controlling and hateful she is. What is your opinion?